As we previously discussed, sex is good for health, so you need to do everything in your power to make your woman satisfied. Obviously, no one expects from you to be the walking encyclopedia of sex and know everything, but it is expected from you to make your woman satisfy. You don’t need to be an editor of HTMWS some sex magazine but you can’t be ignorant as well.
In this day and age when all the information are not only widely available, but soooo easily accessible, you really don’t have any excuse not to do your due diligence and learn new skills every now and then. I like to believe that I’m good in bed, and I never stop learning new things. On contrary, I feel more obligated to learn and improve more, so I use every opportunity to learn new stuff to satisfy my partner.
If you want to learn how to make her squirt you just simply need to do your research, and once you get comfortable with your skills, go for it, and rock her world. It’s actually not that hard to satisfy a woman, you just CAN NOT be a selfish douche bag who doesn’t care about satisfy your partner in bed.
Probably the most important skill you need to learn in order to be good in bed (or anywhere else for that matter) is to learn how to read body language (70% of communication is body language). I’m not gonna go into details, do your research for that, but I’ll tell you something that is so simple that you will think I’m stupid for pointing that out, but you would be surprised how many people don’t do that, and most likely, you’re one of those people. And that is that you need to listen your partner more often. When you listen carefully and when you’re focused on what she is talking, you notice certain pattern in her body language. You notice facial expression and something what is called micro expression, and if you learn to read that, you already did 50% of the job. That is because micro expressions and body language in general is something that happens involuntary, which means if you don’t do it on purpose, you don’t stop doing that on purpose. But we went off topic now, so let’s get back to the story. When you learn your partners body language you don’t have to ask her questions every step of the way when you’re trying something new. And actually, a lot of girls don’t like to answer all those questions because they feel under the spotlight and uncomfortable. So you rather learn how she acts when she’s feeling pleasant and how when she feels unpleasant.
Earlier I mention about learning how to make your wife squirt, because that was something new for me and my girlfriend, and I really felt proud when I managed to do that, especially because she never experienced that before and she thought she can’t do it. So you kind of feel proud when you can do something like that. But squirting shouldn’t be the only thing, or the first thing you need to try, maybe you should start with learning what is a clit, or how to play with a clitoris! You know, first you crawl, then you walk, and then you run. You can’t start running fresh from the womb.